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Almost all couples experience some degree of conflict within their relationship. As painful as it may be, it is very common and you are not alone. Couples counseling can help you and your partner resolve conflicts you may have and build a happy and fulfilling relationship. With our highly trained and certified practitioners, you’ll get the help you need without any judgment.

“We are born in relationship, we are wounded in relationship, and we can be healed in relationship.” — Harville Hendrix, couples therapist and New York Times bestselling author

HOW COUPLES COUNSELING WORKS
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Choose from one of our highly-skilled, professionally trained, and certified therapists.

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Schedule to meet with your therapist to discuss your goals and form a plan for success.

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Begin your journey towards getting the happy and healthy relationship you deserve.

Discover How Couples Counseling Can Help

While you and your partner may feel overwhelmed by your relationship struggles, it’s always possible to strengthen your connection and look forward to a more fulfilling future together. By putting in the time and effort to work on your partnership, you can build a foundation of empathy, love and companionship that can last a lifetime.

At Grow My Relationship, we offer couples therapy for all types of relationships including married couples, divorced or separated couples, gay/lesbian couples, polyamorous unions, single parents, teenagers, adolescents, adults & seniors. We also provide support for those who are struggling with depression, anxiety, addiction, grief, loss, trauma, and more.

If you’re ready to move past your problems and start living life more fully, connect with one of our practitioners today. We offer both in-person and online therapy sessions.

Who Should Consider Couples Counseling

Any relationship can benefit from couples therapy. Couples therapy can prevent small issues from turning into larger relationship problems. Relationships are hard, and having a counselor on hand can help you and your partner navigate through common stressors, including finances, sex, infidelity, parenting, extended family, health or medical problems, frequent conflict, lack of communication skills, falling out of love, addiction, and more.

If your relationship isn’t where you want it to be, couples therapy can help you get it there. Many people aren’t aware of how couples therapy can treat a wide array of issues and teach couples the skills to overcome problems and improve their relationship satisfaction. Couples therapy is a meaningful way to repair the foundation of your relationship and build a stronger emotional bond.

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The Developmental Model Approach to Couples Counseling

The Developmental Model is a tested approach to couples counseling. Created by Dr. Ellyn Bader and Dr. Peter Pearson more than 30 years ago, the Developmental Model encourages you and your partner to view your relationship challenges as part of a natural and normal struggle for psychological growth and wholeness. Rather than seeing conflict between you and your partner as a problem or illness, this method motivates you to focus on the strengths of your relationship and encourages growth, change, and forward motion.

This internationally recognized method has benefitted tens of thousands of couples across the U.S. and worldwide, and draws hundreds of couples counselors each year to its acclaimed training programs sponsored by The Couples Institute based in Menlo Park, California. Many therapists trained in the Developmental Model can be found listed in Psychology Today and the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT) as skilled therapists for adult relationships. Drawing in part on the research of Margaret Mahler, Fred Pine, Anni Bergman, and John Bowlby, the method holds that life is a developmental process in which we as humans are constantly challenged and continually growing. 

Take a look at the Developmental Model stages here below:

Symobiosis

Exclusive Bonding: The blissful merging of the two individuals into a "we" is known as symbiosis.

Differentiation

Managing Anxiety Over Differences: Eventually as each individual re-emerges, differences between you begin to appear.

Exploration

Moving from "WE" back to "I": When you are able to resist the pressure to return to a symbiotic state, you begin to reestablish your own identity and self-esteem that are independent of how your relationship is faring.

Re-Connection

Back & Forth Patterns Of Intimacy: In this stage you have strengthened your identity and learned to maintain your own point of view without hostility. You think more productively about your differences and disagreements instead of having automatic negative reactions.

Synergy

Independence & Interdependence: The flow between the individual and the “we” is becoming easier… almost automatic. The relationship is now more vital than either partner separately.

Symobiosis

Exclusive Bonding: The blissful merging of the two individuals into a "we" is known as symbiosis.

Differentiation

Managing Anxiety Over Differences: Eventually as each individual re-emerges, differences between you begin to appear.

Exploration

Moving from "WE" back to "I": When you are able to resist the pressure to return to a symbiotic state, you begin to reestablish your own identity and self-esteem that are independent of how your relationship is faring.

Re-Connection

Back & Forth Patterns Of Intimacy: In this stage you have strengthened your identity and learned to maintain your own point of view without hostility. You think more productively about your differences and disagreements instead of having automatic negative reactions.

Synergy

Independence & Interdependence: The flow between the individual and the “we” is becoming easier… almost automatic. The relationship is now more vital than either partner separately.

Just as individuals evolve through normal developmental stages, so do couples. Maybe you and your partner are stuck in a particular developmental stage and have become focused on each other’s flaws. A counselor trained in the Developmental Model knows how to refocus you and your partner on the strengths that you have. The counselor will help you both build the motivation to do hard work on the relationship, not just in the room during the therapy session, but especially in your daily life together. This work is designed to help you develop the skills to move you both toward self-improvement and greater relationship satisfaction.

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Skilled & Trained Couples Counseling Therapist

Our practitioners have the experience, training, and certification that you and your partner need. Relationship counseling can address a broad array of issues. Our therapists are trained to help you and your partner with the following therapy types:

Your counselor will be prepared to help you address the following and other relationship issues:  

Find a certified mental health practitioner who specializes in providing relationship help to couples just like you. Discuss your goals and treatment plan and discover the tools you need to begin your journey of growth. Restore passion, love, and confidence to get the healthy relationship you deserve.

So many couples experience what you are facing right now. Let us help you. If you and your partner are ready to gain a deeper understanding of each other and work toward a happy and fulfilling future together, please contact us to schedule your couples therapy free consultation. We are happy to answer your questions, address your concerns, and discuss how counseling can help you and your partner feel connected. We are committed to providing quality couples therapy to those suffering in their relationship.

Are You Ready For Couples Counseling?

You and your partner can benefit from couples counseling at any stage in your relationship. It can be helpful to start couples therapy before you run into problems in your romantic partnership. Many couples choose to do premarital counseling in order to get to know each other better and address any differences they may have so they’re less likely to become points of conflict later on. Premarital counseling is a great option for people in a serious relationship who are considering getting married.

Couples therapy can be a helpful resource when you’re going through any significant life event. Many couples struggle for months or even years with a particular problem, but it’s best to seek help sooner rather than later to have better results. Whether you are looking to strengthen your marriage or receive support as you build your life together, working with a skilled, certified therapist can be a real relationship saver!

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How Can You Find A Couples Therapist?

It can be difficult and time consuming to find a highly skilled, well-trained therapist who is a good match with you and your partner. We make finding a therapist easy! All of our practitioners are vetted through our certification program, and are experienced in helping couples navigate many challenges. Whether you’re looking for premarital counseling, marriage counseling, discernment counseling, family therapy, financial therapy, or other forms of couples therapy, we can connect you with skilled practitioners to help you on your therapy journey.

There are many different approaches to couples therapy, including focused therapy (EFT), the Gottman method, and Imago relationship therapy, among others. Our counseling approach is different from others since our therapists are trained in the acclaimed Developmental Model approach, which helps couples move through different developmental stages of their relationship. Our practitioners will help you to set goals and to move at your own pace through this important work.

Change begins before the first couples therapy session. Utilizing the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy, you will learn the key steps towards creating happiness and rebuilding your trust for today and tomorrow. Choosing a couples counselor is an important decision. Contact us for couples therapy and restart your future today.

Expectations Of Couples Counseling

You and your partner will both need to work hard in order to see improvement in your relationship. If you are both committed to growing and developing together, you will likely see some positive changes and may enjoy greater happiness and intimacy. If one partner wants to grow and improve the relationship, but the other person does not, it may be worth asking about individual therapy.

During your sessions, your couples counselor or family counselor will work with you both to set goals for how you will address problems in your partnership. You’ll both need to remain open-minded and optimistic, with a commitment to learning new skills and seeing things from your partner’s perspective. It’s crucial for a married couple to take responsibility for their individual actions within the marriage, and to make necessary behavior changes in order to work toward the happy and healthy marriage they desire.

Set the goals that you want to achieve with your counselor during your initial counseling session. Remember that you are only one person in the relationship, and the other person needs to be heard as well. Along the way, check in with each other and make sure you both are still on the same page. It’s important to pay close attention to small changes and shifts in each other’s feelings. Even the tiniest progress is a step toward bigger improvement—both self improvement and in your relationship together!

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About Grow My Relationship

We have curated a selection of exceptionally skilled practitioners to offer couples in crisis a discreet and easily accessible means of seeking assistance from a  Developmental Model practitioner.  Navigating through relationship difficulties can be overwhelming, often making it challenging to access the support that you truly need. At Grow My Relationship, we strive to simplify this process for you. Guidance and assistance from professionally trained practitioners and relationship coaches are merely a single click away.

Our practitioners are trained and experienced professionals. Each practitioner listed in our directory is required to possess specific credentials or training (licenses, educational degrees, training, practice, specific experience working with couples for 3 or more years), adhere to any  Ethical Principles and Code of Conduct for their profession, and must undergo comprehensive training and mentoring prior to participating on our platform.

Our mission is centered around delivering the most exceptional marriage counseling, couples therapy, or relationship coaching available today. We are driven by our passion to identify, address, and provide proven solutions for relationship challenges, enabling couples to enhance intimacy and cultivate the loving connection they rightfully deserve.

It’s important to note that seeking help is not limited to conventional couples alone. As long as you’re facing relationship questions or challenges, our practitioners are dedicated to assisting you in your journey.

Our Couples Counseling Can Help With:

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Frequently Asked Questions

Couples therapy aims at someone with trouble in their relationship while everyone else goes to counseling to strengthen the marriage. It provides the necessary coping tools to handle upcoming problems healthily.

When considering marriage counseling, the best type of practitioner varies depending on the preferences, needs, and circumstances of the individual and/or couple. Ultimately, the best practitioner for marriage counseling is someone who aligns with the couple’s goals, values, and communication style, and who possesses the necessary expertise and training to address the specific needs of the couple effectively. It’s important for couples to research and interview potential practitioners to find the right fit for their relationship journey. GrowMyRelationship.com connects you with marriage practitioners who are trained in the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy and have experience in working with couples.

Whether married couples should see the same therapist is a personal decision that depends on individual circumstances and preferences. Some couples find it beneficial to see the same therapist, as it allows for a comprehensive understanding of the relationship dynamics. It can promote open communication and shared insights. However, other couples may prefer to see separate therapists to ensure individual perspectives are addressed. Ultimately, the choice should be based on the most comfortable and effective for the couple.

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Terms of Service & Use

The inclusion of a practitioner in this directory is not an endorsement by Grow My Relationship, The Couples Institute, or Strategic Marketing LLC.
 
Grow My Relationship only accepts practitioners into the directory who have met the clinical/coaching training prerequisites and have completed the minimum of the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy training program.

In order to be listed in the directory, all practitioners listed in the directory pledge to conduct themselves in alignment with the Ethical Principles and Code of Conduct, pertinent to their professional license or coaching certification and to be an actively licensed mental health professional or a trained coach in the jurisdiction in which they practice.

By using this directory, you agree to hold Grow My Relationship, The Couples Institute, Strategic Marketing LLC, its owners, officers, agents, employees, and affiliates harmless and indemnify them fully in the event of your dissatisfaction with a practitioner found via the directory.

Such dissatisfaction includes dissatisfaction that is known or unknown and predictable or unpredictable. Understand the above “hold harmless” and “indemnification” clause is mutual, between you, Grow My Relationship, The Couples Institute, or Strategic Marketing LLC.

The inclusion of a professional in this directory is not an endorsement.

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Coach

A relationship coach supports couples in learning vital partnership skills and helps you to develop conflict resolution skills, offering tools to achieve a thriving, healthy relationship. Coaches tend to focus on the present and creating an inspired future.

All well-trained relationship specialists seek to offer advice, feedback, observations, and homework to help your relationship evolve. Therapists and counselors have mandatory educational and licensing requirements that are determined by the state or country in which they practice. Coaches do not.

Clinical Social Worker
All well-trained relationship specialists seek to offer advice, feedback, observations, and homework to help your relationship evolve.

This profession usually requires two years of study after obtaining an undergraduate degree. While specific licensure requirements vary by state, most require clinical social workers to obtain 3,000 hours or 2 years of supervised clinical experience, after obtaining a Masters degree. Social workers can also specialize in diverse fields such as human services management, social welfare analysis, community organizing, social and community development, and social and political research.

As you know, this is not an easy task when you and your partner are struggling to communicate, cooperate, and connect. This is where a highly trained guide is especially valuable.

Marriage and Family Therapist/Counselor (LMFT)
All well-trained relationship specialists seek to offer advice, feedback, observations, and homework to help your relationship evolve. 

Therapists and counselors have mandatory educational and licensing requirements that are determined by the state or country in which they practice. Obtaining this license requires a Masters degree which takes approximately two years of post graduate study. The license also requires 3000 hours of supervised work and passing written exams.

Counselors and therapists may make situational determinations about how deep to go into the personal history of each partner. They may seek to help you see where certain unhelpful patterns of behavior originated. 

Clinical Psychologist
All well-trained relationship specialists seek to offer advice, feedback, observations, and homework to help your relationship evolve.

After graduating from college, it usually takes about five years of graduate school to get a Ph.D. in Psychology. It then requires an additional two years of supervision and passing a written (and often) an oral exam. There are a few states that allow psychologists to prescribe medications (with additional training) but that is uncommon.

Our professionals can guide you to clarify your individual goals as well as enable you to develop mutually agreed upon and supported relationship goals.

Psychiatrist
All well-trained relationship specialists seek to offer advice, feedback, observations, and homework to help your relationship evolve.

After graduation from medical school, there is a generally a 4-year psychiatric residency. After the completion of this training, psychiatrists must pass an exam issued by the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology to obtain certification and legally practice in the field. Psychiatrists can prescribe medications.

Our professionals can guide you to clarify your individual goals as well as enable you to develop mutually agreed upon and supported relationship goals.

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