Katrina V.
Psychotherapist
Coulsdon, Surrey, England, UK
ABOUT
With 15 years as a couples counsellor, I offer a safe and non-judgemental space for you to understand yourselves and one another better and to take actions to feel part of the same vibrant and exciting team once again. If either of you are not sure you even want to be in the relationship, we can explore how you got to this position and what it might take to repair or to separate in a non-combative way.
I am creative and intelligent, blending learning and intuition to offer compelling ways of exploring and resolving your issues, beyond just talking. And with 27 years experience as a psychotherapist, I can help you understand and manage the effect of any past trauma or neurodiversity on your relationship too.
SPECIALITIES
- All Parenting Issues
- Anger management or verbal abuse
- ADHD
- Betrayal
- Compatibility conflicts
- Decision to separate or divorce
- Drifting apart
- Drug or alcohol problems
- Empty nest syndrome
- Eating Disorders
- Falling out of love
- Family system or in-law challenges
- Feeling defeated or unhappy
- Hopelessness or desperation
- Improving your communication skills
- Infertility and reproductive challenges
- Intimacy or sexual issues
- Jealousy
- Lack of trust
- Marital Counseling/Couples Counseling
- Medical/Disease/Injury affecting your relationship
- Money conflicts
- Motivation/Priorities/Roles & Responsibility
- Negotiation and decision making skills
- Parenting conflicts
- Physical or emotional affair
- Pre-marital issues
- Role of power/controlling behavior
- Trauma
Clinical Approach
Developmental Model
Years of Experience
16+
SERVICE LOCATIONS
- UK
- Telehealth (virtual)
Credentials
- Psychotherapist
- Couples Counsellor Registered MBACP
Advanced Training
- Developmental Model of Couples Therapy
Advanced Training
Languages
- English
Languages
SPECIALITIES
- All Parenting Issues
- Anger management or verbal abuse
- ADHD
- Betrayal
- Compatibility conflicts
- Decision to separate or divorce
- Drifting apart
- Drug or alcohol problems
- Empty nest syndrome
- Eating Disorders
- Falling out of love
- Family system or in-law challenges
- Feeling defeated or unhappy
- Hopelessness or desperation
- Improving your communication skills
- Infertility and reproductive challenges
- Intimacy or sexual issues
- Jealousy
- Lack of trust
- Marital Counseling/Couples Counseling
- Medical/Disease/Injury affecting your relationship
- Money conflicts
- Motivation/Priorities/Roles & Responsibility
- Negotiation and decision making skills
- Parenting conflicts
- Physical or emotional affair
- Pre-marital issues
- Role of power/controlling behavior
- Trauma
Clinical Approach: Developmental Model
Years of Experience
16+CREDENTIALS
Credentials
- Psychotherapist
- Couples Counsellor Registered MBACP
ADVANCED TRAINING
- Developmental Model of Couples Therapy
Advanced Training
LANGUAGES
- English
Languages
SERVICE LOCATIONS
- UK
- Telehealth (virtual)
TESTIMONIALS
Katrina helped us during a crisis in our relationship. She created a safe space for us to open up and express ourselves, encouraging us to understand the impact of the communication between us and the deeper meanings. We found her easy to trust, thoughtful and intuitive.
She made the sessions enjoyable with her use of communication tools and we’re very grateful to have had such an experienced and creative therapist help us through our difficulties. We would highly recommend her to anyone needing counselling/therapy!
Gill and Peter
Extremely good!! Katrina is never one sided and always helps us to to look at things from different perspectives.
Rachel & partner
My partner and I had been together for many years and had a very happy relationship when we were challenged by a potentially devastating financial ‘mistake’. I had felt very shocked, angry and let down by him and could not see a way of rebuilding my trust.
I think that he felt hopeless and full of shame and just wanted to run away. We were truly stuck and it looked as if our family (us and two children) would fall apart.
We saw Katrina together over several months. At one point it looked as if we would separate and it was good to know that Katrina would help us through that process if need be. Thankfully, in the end it wasn’t necessary.
Katrina helped us to really talk honestly with each other. It was difficult at times to hear what he thought and felt about my way of being and communicating and – I won’t lie – there were a few tense car journeys home!
But Katrina supported us through that. She was also able to help me express and channel my considerable rage, which could have felt very unsafe without adequate support and appropriate containment.
Her consulting room felt like a safe place to say things I couldn’t say elsewhere. I got to say what I needed to say without it destroying us!
I really appreciated the way that Katrina did not side with either of us, and never blamed anyone, but stayed fully focused on ‘the relationship’ as her client. I also liked the methods she used, particularly the sand tray, which was a really creative way to express and work through feelings and unconscious ‘stuff’ that may have not found its way into the light using conventional talking methods. Katrina also taught us how to do a daily temperature check to keep us communicating honestly but helpfully.
We stayed together! It surprised many of our friends who really thought we wouldn’t make it through. We are now 5 years on and going strong.
I am so glad we stuck with it because we have been closer than ever and communicate so much more helpfully. What doesn’t break you really does make you stronger!
Every now and then we reflect on that time and we are both so thankful that we found the right person to help us through that difficult time.
Katrina is a warm, safe, competent, brave, creative and gifted therapist. I have recommended many people to her since and will continue to do so.